THE BAND OF THE HAND: Celebrating Masturbation May
As it’s just starting, I figured I’d get us all primed and ready for Masturbation May. This self-proclaimed month of self-love began in San Francisco in 1995 as a response to U.S. Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders forced resignation. Responding to a question put to her at United Nations World AIDS Day in 1994, the Surgeon General said: “I think More...
THE SEX FILES: LA’s Freak Show Begins weekly Vegas Residency
After 5 years of selling-out Hollywood, San Francisco, Phoenix and other cities, Freak Show, LA’s most infamous monthly cabaret/variety show, takes up residency in Las Vegas starting 5/23, every Thursday and More...
THE SEX FILES: Severe Films Goes Grey: “Ms. Grey” and “Ms. Grey: Darker” Movie Review
Generally, I like the grey areas of life; ambiguous flirty talk or looks, the ‘might she/will see’ bedroom conundrums…pretty much as I like the grey areas in my porn. Severe Films present two fantastic ‘grey’ More...
THE SEX FILES: We Talk with Natalie Wall of the “Awkward Sex… and the City” Podcast
Natalie Wall in sex shop (c) Damon Scheleur Self-proclaimed ‘queer confidant’ Natalie Wall, is the host of the beloved touring show and now podcast Awkward Sex and the City. Natalie has truly heard and seen More...
THE SEX FILES: Part 2: Vegas Adventuring
Photo credit: Ralph Greco Chris and I awoke Saturday morning to catch quick Dunkin Donuts’ coffees and eats. It can be a real eye-opener for tourists to Vegas, that off-the-strip there is pretty much an everyday, More...
THE SEX FILES: Vegas Adventuring For A Kink Convention, Part 1
While you were all off watching Adam Levine’s nipples, I was traipsing back home on the ‘red eye’ from Vegas to Newark having spent another wild and woolly weekend in Sin City teaching at the Sin In The City More...
THE SEX FILES: What Happened To My Porn?
Why doesn’t anybody like porn anymore? I know, the Me Too movement has us all on high alert where nude females negotiating naughty no’s no’s are concerned (at least females coerced into being nude and naughty) More...
THE SEX FILES: End Of The Year News
Photo credit: Anna Rodriguez It might be that we are coming to the end of the year, some newly evolved (or as Devo claimed, maybe we are’ de-evolving’) sensibility has gripped society or that, well, shit just More...
Have You Been Naughty Or Nice? THE SEX FILES 2018 Holiday Gift Giving Guide
Giving with the lights, cookies, the Menorah candles, gift exchanging (and returning) and celebrating the Nguzo Saba, being your faithful servant in all things naughty (and a little nice) I figured I could give More...
THE SEX FILES: It’s A Woman’s Prerogative
Bunny Colby FKA as Nadya Nabakova We certainly hear the words transition, reinvention, and rebranding a lot these days. Whether they are used legitimately or being rushed through a twitter feed for the latest cause More...
